Talk to the Wizard
Or in this case, Craigslist.
Quoting from this site:
I’ve seen you on the train before about 6:00 6:30 dressed in a suit or corporate casual clothes. You’re tall for Asian, goodlooking, and always listening to your Ipod. I’d love to meet for a drink sometime and take it from there.
Hint: Ask the wizard for courage. Then ask the dude face to face.
Yes, I am wandering the internet to avoid writing. Why do you ask?
